DECISION MAKING STEPS
-WHAT AM I FACING?(Insight)
-WHAT ARE MY CHOICES?
-WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF I DO THIS OR DO THAT?( Foresight)
-MAKE MY DECISION!
-WHAT DID I LEARN?(Hindsight)
HELPFUL reSOUrCES
FIGHTING WORDS! Powerful, Thought Provoking Poetry That Packs a Punch! by Anthony Butler
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V."I" P. SIGNATURE SERVICES!
"This...Stops with Me!"
TYPES OF BULLYING
-VERBAL( Name calling, teasing...)
-PHYSICAL( Hitting, pushing, ...)
-SOCIAL( Isolating, Excluding...)
-EMOTIONAL( Spreading Rumors)
-TECHNOLOGICAL
WHAT'S BEHIND THE ANGER?
-HURT
-FEAR
-REJECTION
-FEELING DISRESPECTED
-JEALOUSY
-SADNESS
-SHAME
-EMBARASSMENT
-NEGLECT
-HOPELESSNESS
-ABANDONMENT
-HUMILIATION
-UNLOVED
-UNWANTED
-GUILT
-ANXIETY
ANGER MANAGEMENT TIPS
-TAKE DEEP BREATHS
-COUNT UP TO/DOWN FROM 10
-EXERCISE
-FOCUS ON "CALMING" THINGS
-PRAY
-TAKE A TIME OUT
-DON'T HOLD GRUDGES
-EXPRESS ANGER PROPERLY
-FIND SOLUTIONS TO THE ANGER
Anthony Butler: Founder/CEO
The V."I" P. Movement, LLC confronts violence at the core! We go straight to the heart of the matter...one's own epic battle with personal pain. When pain is acknowledged and managed in a healthy way, violence is greatly reduced. We educate, inspire, and challenge people to become a part of more peaceful solutions! We help individuals to declare that when it comes to senseless violence, "THIS...STOPS WITH ME!!!"
OUR CORE VALUES
Bible Based
Self Accountability
-DEFEND SELF & OTHERS!
-CONFRONT BULLYING! -DOCUMENT BULLYING!
-REPORT BULLYING!
-REPEAT!
*SCHOOL & COLLEGE PRESENTATIONS
*CHURCH WORKSHOPS
*COMMUNITY SUPPORT
*STAFF TRAININGS
*POETRY EVENTS
& MORE!!!
WORKSHOPS & PRESENTATIONS!!!
-The Root Reasons For Violence
-Conflict Crash Course
-The Biography of a Bully
-One Day, 1 Decision Will Change Everything!
-VIP Classroom Management Keys
-ME Management( Self, Time, Anger, Stress)
-Social Emotional Learning Insights
-Intentional Parenting
-Red Flags in Relationships
-Gaining Momentum in Marriage Support
-Poetic Workshops and Dialogues
-V."I" P. Life and Sports Symposiums
-An Authentic Array of PD Topics For Schools
-IGNITING Entrepreneurs
-Keeping It 100! ( 100% Of Us Will...)
-Breaking Down Anger, Building My Plan
-V."I" P. Keys To "Winning Our Males!"
RED Flags In Relationships!
* Extreme Jealousy * Pressures You
* Excessive Calls, Texts, etc. * Yells at you
* Ignores Your Boundaries * Throws or Destroys items
* Cheats on you * Goes back on Promises
* Isolates You From Others * Uses Social media to watch you
* Puts You down * Makes all/most of the decisions
* has big mood swings * Hurts pets or threatens to
*threatens you * Makes you feel nervous
* Acts Controlling * Tries to make you feel crazy
* Has Hit, pushed, pinched you... * Doesn't take you serious
* Keeps you from succeeding * Makes you feel unwanted
* Has a history of violence * uses Alcohol/drugs
* makes Excuses * Tells you how to dress/etc.
* Takes no responsibility * Blames you for their actions
Pay attention to these and more "red Flags!"
Trust your instincts!
Call 1-800-799-7233 for support and guidance
CONFLICT STYLES
-COMPETING
-COLLABORATING
-COMPROMISING
-ACCOMODATING
-AVOIDING
WHAT IS VIOLENCE?
Violence is the deliberate, intentional use of physical force(threatened or actual) intended to hurt, injure, damage, abuse, or kill someone or something. The main types of violence are:
SELF DIRECTED( against oneself)
INTERPERSONAL( between one another)
COLLECTIVE(group violence for economic, political, or social purposes)
CONFLICT STRATEGIES
-CALM DOWN
-USE "I" STATEMENTS
-BE RESPECTFUL
-LISTEN CAREFULLY
-FOCUS ON ONE ISSUE AT A TIME
-ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY
-KNOW WHEN TO MOVE ON
-WORK TO FIND A SOLUTION
-GET HELP FROM OTHERS
-PEACEFUL BODY LANGUAGE
-BE HONEST
CONFLICT STRATEGIES, ANGER MANAGEMENT, DECISION MAKING TIPS, and More!
SOCIAL EMOTIONAL LEARNING
-SELF AWARENESS
-SELF MANAGEMENT
-SOCIAL AWARENESS
-RELATIONSHIP SKILLS
-RESPONSIBLE DECISION MAKING
OUR mission & vision
We confront the underlying reasons for violence in unique and innovative ways through practical education that inspires individuals to pursue treating others how they want to be treated.