RED Flags In Relationships!

* Extreme Jealousy                          * Pressures You

* Excessive Calls, Texts, etc.       * Yells at you

* Ignores Your Boundaries          * Throws or Destroys items

* Cheats on you                                 * Goes back on Promises

* Isolates You From Others         * Uses Social media to watch you

* Puts You down                               * Makes all/most of the decisions 

* has big mood swings                   * Hurts pets or threatens to

*threatens you                                 * Makes you feel nervous

* Acts Controlling                          * Tries to make you feel crazy

* Has Hit, pushed, pinched you...  * Doesn't take you serious

* Keeps you from succeeding      * Makes you feel unwanted

* Has a history of violence          * uses Alcohol/drugs

* makes Excuses                               * Tells you how to dress/etc.

* Takes no responsibility             * Blames you for their actions

Pay attention to these and more "red Flags!"

Trust your instincts!

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-TRAUMA: an emotional response to a tragic event

-Trauma can be experienced or witnessed

-Trauma can occur one time or over time 

-No one is immune to trauma ("wounds")

-Trauma can cause fear, distrust, risky behaviors,etc.

-ACES (Adverse Childhood Experiences-Trauma)

Experienced or Experiencing: Physical, Emotional, or Sexual Abuse- Physical or Emotional Neglect-Mother Treated Violently-Incarcerated Household Member-Drugs/Alcohol- Separation or Divorce- Mental Illness In the Home( Adapted from CDC.Org)

-IF THIS IS YOU, PLEASE GET HELP!

-CONTACT A CARING PERSON AT SCHOOL, CHURCH, MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL, etc.

-KNOW THERE IS HOPE! YOU ARE WORTH IT!

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-TAKE DEEP BREATHS

-COUNT UP TO/DOWN FROM 10

-EXERCISE

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-PRAY

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-FIND SOLUTIONS TO THE ANGER

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-WHAT AM I FACING?(Insight)

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TYPES OF BULLYING
-VERBAL( Name calling, teasing...)

-PHYSICAL( Hitting, pushing, ...)

-SOCIAL( Isolating, Excluding...)

-EMOTIONAL( Spreading Rumors)

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Anthony J. Butler: Founder/CEO
The VIP Movement, LLC confronts violence at the core! We go straight to the heart of the matter...one's own epic battle with personal pain. When pain is acknowledged and managed in a healthy way, violence is greatly reduced. We educate, inspire, and challenge people to become a part of more peaceful solutions! We help individuals to declare that when it comes to senseless violence, "THIS...STOPS WITH ME!!!"

VIP CONFLICT STRATEGIES
-CALM DOWN

-USE "I" STATEMENTS

-BE RESPECTFUL

-LISTEN CAREFULLY

-FOCUS ON ONE ISSUE AT A TIME

-ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY

-KNOW WHEN TO MOVE ON

-WORK TO FIND A SOLUTION

-GET HELP FROM OTHERS

-PEACEFUL BODY LANGUAGE

-BE HONEST

OUR CORE VALUES

*Bible Based

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OUR mission & vision

We confront the underlying reasons for violence in unique and innovative ways  through practical education  that inspires individuals to pursue treating others how they want to be treated.

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CONFLICT STYLES

-COMPETING

-COLLABORATING

-COMPROMISING
-ACCOMODATING
-AVOIDING

WHAT IS VIOLENCE?

Violence is the deliberate, intentional use of physical force(threatened or actual) intended to hurt, injure, damage, abuse, or kill someone or something. The main types of violence are:

SELF DIRECTED( against oneself)

INTERPERSONAL( between one another)

COLLECTIVE(group violence for economic, political, or social purposes)

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